Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Unpleasant Dae

Just back from an interview...hmm because of this interview something unhappy happened.

Conversation between me, E and P...

E: Eh, you need to go off 15mins earlier right?
Me: Yup...
P: Huh? you need to go off earlier? Why? What's the reason?
Me: ...(I cant possibly tell them that am going for interview right?!) I got somthing on...
P: OH! Like that ar! Can leave office early as and when you like one huh?! If my husband wants to meet me, I can also go off earlier lor!
Me: (dumbfounded)...huh...ermm...nevermind la...its ok then.

I mean...what is this! Its only 15mins earlier what! Just because I can't tell you a valid reason and you take it as I am going out shopping or meeting friends/boyfriend! Lucky, I am the type that can control my temper well, if not I would have flare up already! Furthermore, I dont want to spoil the relationship between colleagues.

P later did alpologise to me...but I was 'hurt' by her words already. I will/ and very much wanted to tell you the reason if I could, but its inappropriate. I am trying to accomodate everyone here by not taking leave (cos she would need to back me up, thot that will make it worst as she will be packed with work) and arranging it after work...asking to leave 15mins earlier...(guo fen meh?)


Ok, she explained that I need to give a valid reason so if anyone were to look for me, she will know what to tell them. Haiz...I know she has a point there too...I didnt blame her...but arent she being unreasonable by saying that....using that kind of (bu gan yan tone) ending off with...'dont know la, you go and ask your boss!'...Ya, you also know that I am not reporting to you...so why do I have to be questioned by you like that?

hurtful ling signing off...

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